Zachary Zane

Hi there! My name is Zachary Zane, but you can also call me The Boyslut. I’m a Brooklyn-based columnist, author, and sex expert whose work focuses on sexuality, lifestyle, and culture. I’m ecstatic to share that my book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto is out now! Through the lens of my bisexuality and self-described sluttiness, I break down exactly how sexual shame negatively impacts our lives, and how we can unlearn the harmful, entrenched messages that society imparts to us. Order it below!

I also am the founder and editor-in-chief of Boyslut Zine, which publishes real sex stories from kinksters worldwide. (Heads up: It gets really raunchy.)

I write “Sexplain It,” the weekly sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health as well as “Navigating Non-Monogamy,” the monthly relationship column at Cosmopolitan. My work has also been published in the New York Times, Rolling Stone, The Washington Post, Cosmo, GQ, OUT, and many others.

 

“Zachary Zane is one of the best sex writers working today. He has a unique ability to balance humor with a deep appreciation for the vulnerability and humanity of his subjects. And reading about Zane's own sexual adventures is like getting invited to Sunday brunch by your wittiest, sluttiest, funniest friend and getting to listen to him recount his crazy weekend.”

— Dan Savage, sex columnist and New York Times bestselling author

 

“There is no one more qualified to write about the spectrum of sexuality than Zachary Zane. He beautifully and sexily writes about his lived experiences in a way that truly opens the door for a better understanding of masculinity and sexuality for everyone. I love Zach's writing and feel immersed in every story!”

— Gaby Dunn, podcaster and New York Times bestselling author

“Zach is a FABULOUS queer writer and thinker who’s doing the Lord’s work by promoting bi-visibility, teaching the children about polyamory, and helping the LGBTQ community—and really, all men and women—learn how to become their best authentic selves.”

— Billy Porter, Actor and Singer

 

“Having worked with hundreds, if not thousands, of journalists on the topic of sex, I can honestly say that Zachary stands out from the pack. In working with him, it’s clear he’s not a sex writer, he’s a first-rate writer who takes sex seriously. His writing is always energetic, clear, witty and scientifically accurate. Having seen how Zach can elevate a guide on sex positions, I can’t wait to read his memoir.”

- Ian Kerner, Ph.D., sex expert and New York Times bestselling author

 
 

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Swipe for rockstar vibes 📸 @devineous. * * * * #lgbt #bipride #bisexualmodel #instagay #love #pride #gayboy #queer #gaypride #loveislove #instagood #fashion #art #photography #gayman #gayguy #selfie #nyc #travel #woof #chesthair #gaychest #gaymen #
New Sexplain It from an older queer man, who, for unseen reasons, now has to top his partner! I spoke to the king of gay s*x education @bybobbybox for this one! “Dear Sexplain It, I’ve been a bottom my entire life. My partner of 30 yea
You may have heard the news… but @thebowiecat and I are expecting—TWINS. That’s right, both my book AND her book will be coming out. And you better buy them!!! 📸 @elleresqphoto
New BOYSL*T! I went to a Monday night s*x party last month, and without spoiling too much, went absolutely wild. Head to my story and click to read!!
Visiting Jack’s hometown. Remember reading him when I was a teenager and feeling inspired. Swipe through. #Writer #beatnik 📸 @vulpixrises
I documented my first two weeks using the cruising app @sniffiesapp for @menshealthmag. It’s a miracle I didn’t get gon-gon… Read the raunchiest exclusively on Men’s Health MVP. (In my story!)
💙 ~viBIng~ 💜 📸 @davidgzimmerman * * * * * #lgbt #bipride #bisexualmodel #instagay #love #pride #gayboy #queer #gaypride #loveislove #instagood #fashion #art #photography #gayman #gayguy #selfie #nyc #travel #woof #chesthair #gaychest #gaymen #bi
I absolutely loved this question from “Mrs. Robinson.” New Sexplain It!! Head to my story and click to read! (Thank you @yourdiagnonsense for your expertise in this one!)
The age old question — 1, 2, or 3? 📸 @josephcartright * 💇‍♀️ @ashleystewwright_hair * Post-production @armandovisualartist * * * * * #lgbt #bipride #bisexualmodel #instagay #love #pride #gayboy #queer #gaypride #loveislove #instagood #f